This is Infertility

There is nothing more fundamental to life than the urge to continue it. But while it may be the most natural thing in the world, childbirth is far from the easiest and no two fertility journeys are the same. For that reason, we are breaking from the typical podcast form. Each episode is hosted by a different voice who brings their own unique point of view to the complex and ever-changing world of infertility. Our hosts are licensed clinical social workers, patient care advocates, clinical psychiatrists, reproductive endocrinologists, real fertility patients, and others who are, in one way or another, experts in the world of fertility. We fuse narrative storytelling with experience and science to give you a new perspective on what it’s really like to go through this journey.

Episode 6: Benjie & Jimmy: Becoming Daddy and Papa

Surrogacy can allow same-sex male couples, or single men, to have a biological child by using the intended parent’s sperm with the assistance of an egg donor and gestational carrier. We hear from Benjie and Jimmy Hyde, who found themselves at a crossroads when their original egg donor was unable to produce embryos. Today’s host is Justin Alvis, Manager of Member Services, Progyny.

Guests include: Benjie and Jimmy Hyde, and Shelly Marsh, Marketing Director at Men Having Babies

For more information, visit Progyny’s Podcast page and Men Having Babies.

Have a question, comment, or want to share your story? Email us at thisisinfertility@progyny.com

Host

Justin Alvis, Manager of Member Services at Progyny. He helps our talented team of dedicated Patient Care Advocates provide Progyny members with the best possible experience through their fertility journey. Justin is passionate about professional development for the Patient Care Advocates—he delights in leading seminars and group trainings on effective and compassionate communication with our members.

 

Guests

Benjie and Jimmy Hyde. On April 11th, 2014, Jimmy and Benjie went to dinner with a close friend at a restaurant downtown Chicago.  And that night, they committed to starting their family and finding a path to have children through surrogacy. Just over a year later on May 21, 2015, twin daughters Isabella and Gabriella were born in Moline, IL., just a few miles from where their surrogate, Tiffany, was from.

Shelly Marsh, Marketing Director at Men Having Babies. Shelly is a three time surrogate mother to same sex male couples both domestic and international. Aside from her own two children she has carried four babies as a surrogate mother – six children in all! Shelly is also very involved in the professional side of surrogacy and IVF; she has been the marketing manager for HRC Fertility (a IVF clinic in Southern California) for many years and is also the marketing manager for the international non-profit, Men Having Babies – which is dedicated to providing education and financial assistance to men choosing to start their families through surrogacy. With a degree in marketing / communications and a passion for this field, Shelly has been able to provide support, insight and pour so much of her heart and soul into the surrogacy world.

Music from this episode:

Artist: Swelling
Track: Dawn II
URL: http://freemusicarchive.org/music/Swelling/Projector_Music_For_Visual_Media/Swelling_-_Projector-_Music_for_Visual_Media_-_07_Dawn_II

Artist: Kai Engel
Track: Headway
URL: http://freemusicarchive.org/music/Kai_Engel/Sustains/Kai_Engel_-_Sustains_-_04_Headway

Artist: Jahzzar
Track: Curves
URL: http://freemusicarchive.org/music/Jahzzar/handmade/Curves

Artist: Steve Combs
Track: A Vital Piece of Music for All Your Soundtrack Needs
URL: http://freemusicarchive.org/music/Steve_Combs/Jaw/Steve_Combs_-_Jaw_-_01_A_Vital_Piece_of_Music_for_All_Your_Soundtrack_Needs

Artist: Lee Rosevere
Track: I Wanted To Live
URL: http://freemusicarchive.org/music/Lee_Rosevere/The_Big_Loop_-_FML_original_podcast_score/Lee_Rosevere_-_The_Big_Loop_-_FML_original_podcast_score_-_14_I_Wanted_To_Live