Episode 48: The Solo Path to Motherhood
“The hardest thing about having a baby alone is making the decision to do it.” This is a quote from the memoir, Panic & Joy: My Solo Path to Motherhood.
In this episode, we hear from Emma Brockes, a British author, journalist, and New York transplant. Since a young age, Emma’s two greatest aspirations in life were to be a writer and a mother. And while she had found her dream career, she didn’t know how to act on her desire to have a child. It wasn’t until Emma was 37 years old and found herself in a relationship with a woman called “L,” who was already in the process of her own path to single motherhood, that Emma was able to take a leap and start her journey towards single parenthood.
Emma shares some of the challenges, doubts, and worries she had before deciding to become a single mother, including a paralyzing fear of what others would think about her. After two years, she finally made the decision to visit her OB-GYN and begin the process of creating her family. We’ll learn what it was like trying to choose the right sperm donor, undergoing multiple rounds of IUI, before successfully getting pregnant with her daughters.
Guest: Emma Brockes, author of Panic & Joy: My Solo Path to Motherhood
Host: Amanda Sanchez, Provider Relations and Billing Specialist at Progyny
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Amanda has 11 years of healthcare experience ranging from family medicine, OBGYN to mental health. She has found a love for fertility here at Progyny. Being a mother of two she is excited to be able to play a role in helping others start their own families.
Emma Brockes is the author of What Would Barbra Do?: How Musicals Saved My Life, and She Left Me The Gun: My Mother’s Life Before Me, both serialized on the BBC. She writes for The Guardian’s Weekend Magazine and has contributed to The New York Times, the Economist and the New Yorker. She lives in New York City.
Music From This Episode:
Music from this episode:
Artist: Andy G. Cohen
Track: Oxygen Mask
Artist: Lee Rosevere
Track: Sad Marimba Planet
Artist: Steve Combs