Updated by the Progyny Clinical Team — December 2025.
During your fertility journey, there may come a time when you stop and ask yourself some big questions:
- Is my current treatment plan working?
- Do I feel supported by my doctor and care team?
- Should I get a second opinion?
These are all normal and important questions. Knowing whether to adjust your treatment plan or seek care from a different doctor or clinic can have a major impact on your peace of mind. Below are some things to think about as you make that decision.
Have you been on the same fertility treatment for three or more cycles?
Yes. Most fertility specialists (reproductive endocrinologists, or REIs) agree that if you haven’t had success after three cycles, it may be time to review your plan. Ask your REI about adjusting medications, adding supplements or acupuncture, or trying a new treatment.
No. Some fertility treatments can take up to three cycles before you see results. It can help to talk with your REI about what changes might come next if things don’t work out. Having a clear plan can help you feel more in control and reduce the stress of waiting.
Do you understand your REI’s plan for your next cycle?
Yes. That’s great. Understanding your treatment plan helps you feel confident and empowered. Always ask questions and reach out to your fertility care team if something isn’t clear.
No. Don’t hesitate to call your REI’s office for clarification. You deserve to fully understand the risks, benefits, and chances of success for your treatment plan. If your REI isn’t available, your fertility nurse can also help explain things.
Are you unsure about part of your treatment but feel uncomfortable speaking up?
Yes. If something doesn’t sit right with you, speak up. Ask your REI to explain their reasoning. If you still don’t feel comfortable after getting answers, it might be time to get a second opinion.
No. That’s wonderful. Still, if doubts ever come up, don’t ignore them. You know your body and your needs best — and your voice matters in your care.
Have you been thinking about a second opinion but haven’t taken the step yet?
Yes. Many fertility patients hesitate to get a second opinion because they don’t want to “insult” their REI. But remember — this is your health and your future family. Your REI understands that finding the right fit is important.
Getting a second opinion doesn’t mean you’re leaving your current clinic. Sometimes hearing the same advice from another specialist can give you peace of mind or new clarity. Think of it as gathering more information to make the best decision for you.
No. Okay, just keep checking in with yourself. If you ever feel uncertain, unheard, or unclear about your treatment, seeking another perspective can be a smart and empowering step forward.
The bottom line
Your fertility journey is deeply personal. You deserve care that feels right for you — medically and emotionally. Remember, it’s perfectly okay to ask questions or seek another opinion if it helps you feel more confident in your care.
Sometimes a fresh perspective can bring the clarity, confidence, or change you need to keep moving forward.
Progyny is here to help you throughout your fertility treatment. Please contact your Progyny Care Advocate for support.
Disclaimer: The information provided by Progyny is for educational purposes only and is not medical advice. Always consult a qualified healthcare provider for medical guidance.