Regardless of where you are in the family building journey, there are many potential challenges to face. And sometimes making that first phone call can be scariest of all. We sat down with Julie Hunt and Dr. Rashmi Kudesia to discuss different ways to build your family, what the process might look like, and address common questions for those looking to start, or continue, their family building journey.
Infertility affects 1 in 8 couples and the number increases when you include those in the LGBTQ+ community or choose to be a single parent by choice. Regardless of where you fall in the family building process, seeing a fertility specialist can help you plan and answer any questions around your future family.
Some reasons to see a fertility specialist might include:
Even if none of the above applies to you but you are still stressed about becoming pregnant or your fertility overall, making an initial consultation can begin addressing any questions you might have.
Additionally, just as a reminder, if you’re a Progyny member, make sure to
Before accessing fertility treatment, an intial consultation is needed to review one’s medical history and do some diagnostic testing. This can feel overwhelming, so we’ve broken down what to expect.
The main goal of the initial consultation is to receive the necessary information and understand what family building options are best for you. During this “information gathering” day, you will likely review and test the following:
During this meeting, it’s important to ask questions! There will be a lot of information at once, so having a list of questions can be helpful. Bringing a notebook, partner, friend, or loved one to take notes can also take the pressure off.
Once the consultation is completed, you and your doctor will discuss the various treatment options. Treatments can range from being prescribed fertility medication and timed intercourse, intrauterine insemination (IUI), in vitro fertilization (IVF), reciprocal IVF, surrogacy, adoption, and fertility preservation (this could be egg freezing or sperm freezing).
A reminder for Progyny members – most of these services are covered by your Progyny benefit. Call your dedicated PCA to learn about your specific coverage. The typical timeline for members from activating their benefit (initial onboarding call) to starting treatment is between 13-15 weeks. This can differ based on your clinic’s availability and your treatment plan. If you have any questions around this, be sure to ask your doctor as this can help manage your expectations.
One of the biggest barriers to treatment is the financial aspect. The cost of one round of IVF treatment can range from $15,000 to $20,000.
For those with the Progyny benefit, you have comprehensive coverage through Smart Cycles. The Smart Cycle bundles services that are performed during a treatment cycle so you and your doctor can make the best treatment plan for the best possible outcome, a single healthy baby. More details on what’s included is covered during the initial onboarding call with Progyny.
Whether you are a Progyny member or not, you will still have financial responsibility. This financial responsibility; will depend on your insurance plan (e.g. deductible, copayment, etc.). If you are unsure what out-of-pocket expenses you might have, ask your PCA and they can walk you through the expected cost based on your plan. This way you have all the information you need before starting treatment.
Look at your diet and lifestyle habits — all of these can be empowering for men and women.
When you’re looking to choose what changes you want to make, choose what is most engaging for you. Otherwise, any change will be hard to maintain.
If you are not a Progyny member or have friends who are not Progyny members, we highly suggest directing them to Talk To HR. This resource is meant to help individuals feel empowered to bring the topic of fertility benefits to their HR and benefits team. Many times, employers don’t know what they don’t know. Advocating for yourself as you feel comfortable might be all it takes to get that conversation and education started at your company. Talk To HR is dedicated to advice on this discussion and also gives the option to submit an anonymous form where employees are looking for more information and increased coverage and benefits.
Progyny is always here to support you on your family building journey. For any further questions reach out to education@progyny.com and be sure to check out resources at Progyny’s education page. If you are a Progyny member, reach out to your Patient Care Advocate. They are always available for any emotional support or fertility advice.